How strong or weak your marriage will be, is greatly influenced by the girl’s family, there are some inlaws that can build or break your marriage and That is why, you have to understand them before marriage.
there are families who believe that, their daughters are always perfect, meaning the husband is the one making mistakes, these kinds of families once their daughter returns to them because of some misunderstanding with her husband, they won’t reprimand and send her back to her husband. They will only focuse on the few mistakes that the son inlaw has made and will start judging him from their daughter side of the story, not allowing the son inlaw to share his part.
When the girl’s parents start doing that, their daughter will not give her husband peace of mind again, anything small, she will either report him to her parents or she goes to her parents at any small argument.
But when your in_laws are those who stand by truth, they won’t even let her sleep in their house, when she comes with dramas of her husband mistreating her, they will send her back to her matrimonial home immediately and when her parents does that, she will know how to endure in her marriage and she will learn how to solve her problems.
Some of the divorce are sponsored by the parents especially when the take side with their bloods, leaving the other person in confusion.
Women, I am not saying that, don’t visit your parents but it is always good when u visit them, while you have not fought with your husband. Again if something is seriously affecting you in your marriage, it is ok to share with your parents but not every small argument you carry to them.