GIRLS OF TODAY’S GENERATION ARE ALL THE SAME, WHETHER BEING A VILLAGE/TOWN GIRL
By Ajok Ngong Ayuen
Good ones are not determine by their location.The girls of these days are all the same whether being a villager or town girl . They are all having almost the same characters, she can be in the village but wish she had a chance to join certain group in town or she can be in town but wish to behave like her mom who was once a village girl and knows culture too.
Gone are the days when people believe that only girls with bad manners where send to town to study and good elements were left in the village to stay with the parents.
In our current situation, only those who are willing and those whose their parents can afford to pay school fees are the one studying. Whether with good/bad characters you have right to study. And This made where a girl stays less important in regard to her manners .
Parental care has impact on every child specially from the mother. A mother is the first teacher and she’s the one who build her daughter’s foundation. Some girls are spoil not because they were meant by God to spoil but how they are brought up by their mothers made them to be in a such a way. …it’s had no connection with being in the town/village.
A girl who respect her family names can also respect her husband’s name when she’s married no matter what she thinks she will always be scared because of the name . And there is nothing which make a man happy then hearing everyone talking about his wife as a respectful woman.
Family background is a problem not the location of a girl. There are some families whose 70% of their girls are known of bad characters. Such families are in the village and some in town.
The way a mother conduct herself to the society is the same way a girl follows. If your mother has good image in the society the you will also follow though you will not be exactly 100% like her and if she the problem then you will always become problem too thinking that it’s best way.
My dear, if you are lucky to get the good one then thanks God…. you got her not because she is a village girl or town girl but a gift from God.