By Grace Akon Andrew
If you want to bring a second wife home, don’t start issues with the first wife or try to convince the young girl about your first wife weakness.
Once you tell that young lady your family issues before bringing her home, she will not respect the first wife.
Some men do think that, by telling a young girl about your divorce wife weakness, or your wife weakness or by hiding your wife from the girl, you might be accepted easily but that is not always the case, a girl with senses will know that once you marry her, you will do the same about her to other girls.
Anytime, you speak about your first wife weakness to a girl, you are creating conflicts between your first wife and the new bride, the young wife will feel like, she is everything to the family because you didn’t show her the right direction while you might have forgotten that, during your struggles, the first wife was with you.
If you are going for a first date as a married man, tell the girl that for sure, you love her and you are happily married but yes, you need her to be part of your great family.
If from the very first time, you talk with her in that respect about your first wife, she will always respect her.
Your first wife might be having weaknesses but the young bride doesn’t need to know.
As a polygamist man, don’t be part of your wives conflicts, anytime, they have misunderstanding, solve their problems fairly without being bias in the name of you love this woman more than the other one.