DEAR LOST BOY’S WIVES, STOP COMPETING WITH YOURSELF ON CLOTHES, RENTAL HOUSES AND IN GIVING MONEY TO ARTISTS WHILE YOUR HUSBAND DOESN’T SLEEP IN ABOARD BECAUSE OF DOUBLE JOBS.
By Grace Akon Andrew Biar
Most of these women are renting the most expensive houses, dress in expensive clothes, making expensive baby showers and birthdays without future plans.
Great number of the lost boy’s wives, when given usd 100 to used, they usually start asking questions like, what will I do with this money? I can’t take it, it won’t help while she know that her husband is working eight hours to get that usd 100, again most of their income go directly to the system and on expenses, at the end of the day, he might save 20 dollars.
The worst part of it, is that, they money she (lost boy’s wife) might be asking badly, she won’t use it well, most of their money are use for competition of clothes, every Sunday and occasions new cloth , wigs, supporting local artists and renting.
While a lost boy’s wife is here competing in renting someone house, decorating the house she will leave behind in future, buying clothes and supporting a local artist when she has no plot of land in the state, leave alone in the city.
They should know that visionaries women in South Sudan and other parts of the world are competing in businesses, government nominations, constructing their own houses, helping their husbands in making great decisions, planning for their future,
What if you helped your man by saving some money and always doing great budgeting so that he won’t be working double jobs until he get old.
The main reason of staying in east Africa is to get better education and security.
Being in a good house doesn’t mean it must be more expensive, it means a secure, safe and comfortable place to live in.
Living in a foreign countries will one day end and that is why you should learned to plan and budget.
If you are given that little money, use it well, if he gives you excess money, don’t buy clothes, use common sense and save it for emergencies or use it on important things.