By. Grace Akon
A married man will live out his sexual fantasies with you then go home to the safety and comfort of the woman who has his heart.
Dating a married man is unwise. Dating a married man and being faithful to him is downright idiotic. Oddly enough, a vast majority of women who entangled with married men remain remarkable faithful to them. I can’t emphasise enough just how misguided this is. I will never for the life of me understand why a woman would remain loyal and steadfast to a man who is not hers.
Don’t get me wrong ; I am not advocating for kept women to go around spreading their legs with every single man outside there, what I am trying to put across is this ; as long you don’t have a ring on your finger, you are a free agent, you can date a man whom u love his thinking, visions and dreams.
I reckon that you are not planning on being a mistress for the rest of your life. Like any other unattractive woman, you too dream of meeting a nice single and available man. Falling in love and settling down as a great couple. Well, none of this will come to fruition if you remain devoted to that philandering man. Think of your married man as nothing more than a nice distraction to while away some boring afternoon as u wait to meet your one true love.
Like a little bit of a step up from a vibrator in that he satisfy some of your financial needs, like paying your rents, buying you some few clothes and shoes as you continue living your life as a single girl with the aim of meeting a potential husband.
Don’t delude yourself into believing that the married man you are dating with will eventually leave his wife and kids and come and shack up with you. If history has taught us anything, it is that married man rarely leave their wives for their mistresses. Men who cheat loves their wives and are never looking to replace them. They just can’t curb their desires for sexual variety, that is where you can come in. He can leave out his sexual fantasies with you and then go home to the safety and comfort of the woman who has his heart. He gets to have the best of both words : a thrilling sex life and a loving and adoring wife at home.
The single biggest mistake side chicks make is wasting their prime years on married man. You meet a married man at your early twenties and devote your life to him for several years until you realise you are wasting your time and leave him or he dumps you for a younger and prettier mistress. By this time, you are old and washed up. This severely limits your choices in term of prospective partners. Out of desperation, you become willing to settle for just any man as long as he is willing to date you.
Relationships with married men are not really relationships, don’t waste your youth and beauty on a man who will never be truly yours. Don’t stop looking for your soul mate when you start dating a married man. Life is too short to waste on a man who is not yours. You can have fun with your married guy, let him spoil you with lavish gifts but whatever you do, don’t give up dating for him. You deserve a man who will be yours and yours only. Never stop looking. You don’t owe that married man any loyalty. If he loves you then he will ask your parents.
©Grace Akon
17th/04/2020.
